Life is no longer important in the face of grudges

Life is no longer important in the face of grudges
The 35-year-old actor Gao Yixiang passed away suddenly, and the 33-year-old player Ji Zhe died of illness. In the past 8 days, someone sighed in a row that he was “jealous and talented, and his life was impermanent.”  The auspicious name is also no match for disease and erosion.  In my impression, Ji Zhe is a blue-collar player who works extremely hard on the field. Bao Yuan has done a lot of dirty work and tired work. Occasionally, the head coach Min Lulei loses his temper because of “not working properly”.Of course, he also has a beautiful three-pointer.  Some fans hooked up and “finger shake” incident.Different from the media wars that were opposed to each other 7 years ago, the media headlines are now much softer-“Goodbye Ji Zhe, the tough guy who once waved his finger to McGrady”.  At that time, Ji Zhe explained to the practice of “shaking fingers against Maddie”: “(Maybe I) make Maddie anxious, this is also a psychological tactic.At first he played so smoothly, so he was trying to stimulate him later, and the effect was okay.”, Ji Zhe did it for victory.  McGrady explained to the process of “elbowing Ji Zhe”: “I do n’t hate that person, and I do n’t have anger, but I want to convey a message, even if you win 20 points in the game, you should not directly report to the opponent.Do this kind of action.”, McGrady did this for dignity.  At that time, the “Shake Your Fingers” incident was fermented for a long time, and once surrounded the drudgery between saliva and brick flying.The fans of McGrady are influenced by emotions, and the fans of Beijing are influenced by nostalgia.But in fact, the two parties absolutely so-called “right or wrong” in the true sense.  As our minds mature, we will understand more and more the true meaning of “children are right and wrong, adults only see pros and cons.”The two parties to the conflict often have nothing to do with right or wrong, but the interests have been sawing.  Especially when it comes to sports, the core interests of both parties are “winning”-and there can only be one winner, which cannot be reconciled in itself, so there is no such thing as “right or wrong”.  Therefore, when we look back at this “finger shake” dispute, in fact, our hearts have long been relieved, in fact, all the grievances have gone with the wind.  Nowadays, when “Life and Death” is delivered to us suddenly, everything is turned into jade silk.McGrady said on social media yesterday: “I want to express my condolences to Ji Zhe’s family.He is a very good player and opponent.”Yes, in the face of noble life, all the” old antiquity “that has been tainted by the saliva has already become insignificant.  People should throw away their angry keyboards, put down their mobile phones for self-entertainment, and learn to cherish and treat everyone around you who loves you and those you love.  Finally, pay tribute to the head coach Min Lulei who worked hard to save the lovers.  □ Zheng Xiaowei (media person)